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Monday, March 12, 2012

Ways To Live More Happily (1)


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Many problems we have in the life are not real but invented by our mind. We often do not think about it but if we could change our attitudes, the life could change and become better. 

So, what are those behaviours that ruin our existence?

We often judge others from our point of view. We do not pretend the person that does not have feet, for example, runs so as we do. But we pretend that others are able to do something so as we do it. 

Specially, it's true for the mothers that pretend their children are perfect or at least so brave as the mother. And they suffer terribly if the child has not the capacities the mothers want he has. So many times I heared from my friends: I was so brave to study -why my child is so stupid???

The other wrong behaviour are the predictions. We "know" what this or that person will do in the next moment, in this or that situation. We act accordingly to our predictions -and create explosive situations. By the way, this is the main cause of most broken relations.

One of the reasons of the unhappiness is the dramatization of the situation. Some persons are very brave to create big problems from nothing. This behaviour creates anxiety. With all the consequences that are known to everybody.

Often, we create rules for ourselves. The rules we are not able to follow. We accumulate the tasks and suffer from different complexes that grow from nothing.

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